Girl talk

This is for the guys, who always have a query: y girls talk too much? And never ever listen what the girl is talking.

I recently found, one of my friends is too tetchy about his girl friend and her “non-stop-blah-blah’s”. (Though that girl once told me that she gets irritated by the way my friend responds to her!)

It is customary women talk more than men. Accepted. But we do discern, Men and women are not identical. Scientifically it is not as if a girls talking is allied with her heart beat and if she doesn’t talk she will die!!

I have down pat reading of a study which says “this difference between men and women can be traced back to the womb, where the sex hormone testosterone moulds the developing male brain. The areas responsible for communication, emotion and memory are all pared back the unborn baby boy. The result is that boys - and men - chat less than their female counterparts and struggle to express their emotions to the same extent.”

To do my little seasoning to it:

"Women have an eight-lane superhighway for processing emotion, while men have a small country road,"

I think the testosterone also reduces the size of the section of the brain involved in hearing - allowing men to become "deaf" to the most logical of arguments put forward by their wives, girlfriends or any girl as a matter of fact.

I still remember the conversation I had today with my friend about the company I was planning to join and here it goes

"I Think the company.....Situated.....Salary.......Timings.....
  ......etc....etc.......etc..........What do you think?"

      (Which went for about 15 min’s) and his answers:


"Hmmm....Hmmm...Good!"

It took another battle for me to explain him the way he acted was aggravating. Any girl will get mad at a guy who responds in this fashion. I find many guys doing the similar thing to the girls, acting and replying as if they are listening. But when they talk about bikes, gadgets, gizmos etc...etc... I don’t find them like this. Do these guys do it deliberately towards girls or is it ‘the testosterone’ the real villan?

But what ever the hormones may do or don’t do, I deem that the social conditioning and upbringing can greatly influence a guy or a girls behavior!!